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Any Pickup artist who has spent more than a few years perfecting his skills knows that while it’s easy to attract a girl, getting her to fall in love with you demands a whole new set of skills. More often than not when a girl agrees to go out with you, she’s simply attracted enough to be curious to see you operate in a romantic environment. Most average (unskilled) guys take several dates and oodles of luck to turn passive interest into a passionate romantic liaison culminating in fab sex, of course. Those who are familiar with seduction dynamics never fail to press the right buttons to get the girl fall madly and helplessly in love with them.
How do I create this magic?
In order for a girl to typically have sex with a man, she needs to be able to feel extremely comfortable around him. Attraction is just the spice; the main fodder for sex is comfort. When attraction is amiss, you’re soon deported to the ‘lets-just-be-friends’ zone. When comfort is missing, you will just be an interesting guy who will soon turn needy and predictable. In order to fast-forward love and sex, here’s the magic formula to operate by:
30% Attraction + 70% Comfort = Love
That’s the reason why most girls will make you wait for months on end. Unless a girl feels ‘sure’ about you, she will tend to avoid the bedroom no matter how badly she herself wants it happen. Through this article I will give you a fool-proof comfort building routine that will take you straight under her radar. Use it corrective and she will start feeling so very comfortable around you that a couple of dates are all it will take for her to decide that she wants to sleep with you.
‘Boyfriend-her’ Technique
The ‘Boyfriend-her’ technique is about doing things ONLY done by the woman’s long-term boyfriend – someone she implicitly trusts. Let’s study the scenario of a typical first date with a typical woman. You meet the girl at 6 in the evening in a coffee shop. You both hit it off. You are at your charming best, the conversation is going great and you 
are making her laugh. At 8 you both become hungry and go to a restaurant to get something to eat. That goes well too. But now what?
The first date twilight zone catches most guys off balance. They are not sure how to advance the date forward. Clearly your goal is to guide her to your bed but the roadmap’s muddled and groping (no pun intended) your way forward is the best you can do. The night usually closes with the girl saying something like, ‘It was great meeting you. Call me. Bye!’
If you are extremely lucky, sex may happen in a month’s time, but as is case with a majority of guys – you will be made to wait for months. This is why I developed the Boyfriend-her technique. This is how it works:
If you have observed long-term couples together, you’ll notice a something very interesting. The guy and his girlfriend are extremely comfortable touching each other, so-much-so that they don’t think twice before doing even gross things like removing crusties out of each other’s eyes.
You will only see long-term couples ‘groom’ each other this way. Only when you have been together for months, had sex, had it dozens of times and are totally comfortable around each other would you do something as intimate as brushing off dirt of your girl’s eye.
Catch my drift? This is your secret psychological weapon that you can use to make a girl feel that she has been with your since ages. During your conversation, tell her to stay still and close her eyes. Simply pretend that she has something in her eye and brush it off. Then carry on yapping as if that never even happened. Later that evening when you have eaten and are about to leave the restaurant, nonchalantly brush off the imaginary piece of food from her lips.
The ‘Boyfriend-her’ technique works at three different psychological planes: 
1. It sub-communicates that you two have known each other for a long time and that’s why you are extremely comfortable around each other.
2. Brushing off dirt involves touching her face AND bringing your face really close to hers. A perfect setup for first kiss later that night.
3. Touching her lower lips allows you to stimulate one of the most erogenous zones in a woman’s body. Stimulating the lower lip which has a high concentration of nerve endings will make her body release the arousal hormone ‘oxytocin’ which will make warm up to you even more.
By making the Boyfriend-her routine a part of your first date arsenal, you will turn each and every one of your first dates in a certified hit. Do it in conjunction with my other seduction routines and you will have the girl take you back home that very night instead of making you wait several months. And hey; I just told you about her eyes and lower lip, you can always go exploring in the nape of her neck, the small of her back; you never know.
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