How to Make Out With a Girl

Steps

1. Have passion. If you don't have passion, don't read this. Most guys say they don't have passion, trust me, you do, you just have to find it. But if you're not confident, don't do it.
2. Make sure you are in a place you and your girl are comfortable in. Good places to start is a bed (note: some girls may feel awkward or nervous if you begin making out on a bed, she may think you want more than just kissing), a couch or even under the stars. One thing to keep in mind is the awkwardness of people walking in on you, so make sure your parents/siblings/friends aren't in the next room.
3. Music. Music is optional, however sparks fly a lot more when there is some good background music playing or music that you and your girl like. This step isn't essential and make sure you know what type of music your girl likes.
4. Start. Starting is very important, can often be fun and can also be very awkward if you don't know what you're doing. Flirting is essential in this step. The goal of flirting is to make a girl have fun. This can be accomplished by joking around, wrestling, teasing, or dancing " but remember too much can be too much, so moderation must be found.
5. During the process of flirting, you will find yourself physically closer to her and/or looking into her eyes. This is the point where you must make the first kiss. Whatever you do, don't get nervous and if you already are, kissing will take that away. Lean your body closer to hers and gently pull her chin towards yours or brush her hair away from her eyes. Don't pucker up your lips like you kissing your Aunt Sally, but keep in a natural position. Now bring your lips closer to hers until they touch and slowly close your lips tighter and when you pull away after a second or so of contact open your lips back to a normal position. Now go in for a second kill and do the same thing. Do this two or three times. Don't kiss her lips in the same spot, move around and kiss her neck/forehead/nose/ears or kiss the area around her lips. This is the main part of making-out, however is very boring if its all you guys do.
6. You might want to add variety, like on the process try the French Kiss or many others you know, keep it slow, many people like to go slow and makes it more passionate, if you and your girl feel comfortable go on the next step, experiment with yourself, touch her, let her touch you. On the moment take a little break look at her on the eyes and tell her "You look beautiful baby" or something nice to her but only if you mean it. Remember don't keep going to the next step if you or she don't feel comfortable.
7. Follow the tips below to make your making out experience less kissy-kissy.



Tips

* Sift through her hair with your fingers and brush her ears.
* Hold her like a baby. Some women are fragile and like to be handled accordingly.
* Don't kiss only her lips- share the wealth. Girls love it when you kiss their necks, particularly the spot where her shoulder connects to their neck. As well, licking or biting (GENTLY!) her ear (especially her earlobes and upper ear) can feel great, too. (Note: Some girls are more ticklish than others- Some may find that this tickles too much to feel good. Also if this is your first time kissing that girl, you may find this is something she is not comfortable doing- she'll let you know by moving away slightly or simply telling you it's not her thing. Just go back to her mouth)
* Break away momentarily. Then as you move back towards her to continue, touch your lips together gently but do not kiss- just tease her by sliding your lips across hers. This technique can drive her CRAZY and make her extremely passionate when you finally do kiss her.
* Look her in her eyes, but not while your kissing her, close your eyes while you kiss and when you pull back look in her eyes. This is difficult because your natural reaction is to look at her with your lips pressed against her. It is rude to have your eyes open during a kiss.
* Take a break and smile at her and tell her something sweet, like "You're Beautiful"
* Before you kiss her, rub your thumb softly against the bottom of her lip or against her cheek and smile at her - she will usually smile or giggle and then take that chance to kiss her.
* Just press your lips against her and let her play with your lips.
* Tell her that she is beautiful/gorgeous.
* Don't get too fast, if you catch yourself going too fast, just slow down.
* Cuddle and hold her closer to you and look her in the eyes.
* Wet/Dry Kiss- don't make it too much of either! Saliva's pretty gross, because you've got to keep swallowing, and the 'gulping' sound isn't that attractive. Be sure to apply a bit of lip balm (not stick or gloss - too sticky and messy) to allow for a smooth kiss.
* Remember not to take total control of the situation. Let your partner make a few moves of their own.
* Don't be scared. If it's the first time for both of you, she'll probably feel just as nervous.
* Don't worry about how to move your tongue because if you practice on pillows or something it feels odd but when you're actually french kissing it will feel natural.
* It's a good idea to make a quick bathroom run (if you're at home) before you make a move for several reasons. You don't want to have to go to the bathroom in the middle of a good make-out session. Another tip is to hide a toothbrush and toothpaste/mouthwash in the nearest bathroom before your date if you're at your own residence. This allows you to ensure good breath before you swap spit. Going to the bathroom also gives you an excuse to change your position when you get back, allowing you to get closer to your partner to make the first move.
* Remember that practice makes better, so if you don't think you are good at all remember that nobody is perfect so you just might want to keep trying, experience will make it more sweet and passionate.
* Start out with the lights on. Once you get more comfortable with each other, slowly dim the lights. Girls like that.


Warnings

* Keep your hands concentrated on her face, head or neck. Unless she loves it, DO NOT grab her butt/breasts/inner legs. If you want to do this, talk to her about it first. But remember, this is just making out. If you want, you can hug her around her waist.
* BE GENTLE. Again, girls are very fragile and don't like to be man-handled.
* Please note that girls do have boobs that can be painful if you hug TOO tight. Be careful about that because hurting her (especially in that way) can be a huge and embarrassing turn-off for you and her!
* DO NOT stick your tongue in her nose.
* You probably shouldn't tell the girl you read a guide on how to kiss (unless you're SURE she'd think it was cute).
* If she doesn't seem to like it, stop immediately.
* Many girls are not comfortable with french kissing. Especially at first!
* Do not chew gum if it is your first time. Gum tends to produce saliva more than mints do. If you do chew gum, and both of you are comfortable, playfully swap it between the two of you.
* It might help if you put on a scary movie because it can make you two get close so then you can move in for the kiss.( But not too scary because then she will not enjoy your time together)
* DO NOT lick her neck, ears, or anything if she isn't into it. If she likes that kind of thing or you do, talk about and see how it goes.
* DO NOT start to pull off her shirt/bra strap. Girls usually do not like this as it is a form of manhandling and they'll feel uncomfortable.
* And the last thing; love can't be totally read like a manual, it will have to be made naturally.


Things You'll Need

* Mints/Gum/Binaca before you start.
* Lit scented candles can make for a romantic session.
* Lip balm. it isn't girly if it doesn't have flavor. Scratchy lips are not pleasant for girls and guys alike, so if you don't want her kissing you with chapped lips, don't kiss her with chapped lips!
* you can use a small amount of mouthwash but remember its very strong so drink some water after that.
* You Might Need A Condom If Things Get Good.

How to Stop Loving a Girl Who Can't Be Loved

Us guys know how it goes...we've all met the perfect girl who we've felt compatibility and excitement with; a bond like no other...everything seems to click in a way that's too good to be true. If only the two of you had each other to rely on; if only the love you see beneath the surface became a daily reality the world would be a better place. Sometimes you have to accept the fact that no matter how much you love someone; there are just some people who cannot be loved. In the following steps I'll tell you the best way to stop your heart from beating out of control for a person that is incapable of recieving real love.


Steps

1. Realize it's not your fault if someone doesn't love you. If your direct actions have changed their mind about your love, then you've got some self-explaining to do. But if it's just a matter of attraction or chemistry it can't really be nit-picked. When it comes to a person who's so out of touch with romance that they cannot or will not allow themselves to be loved; it's a different animal completely. Behold.
2. Ponder the fact that most people who can't be loved have psychological and or emotional problems revolving around commitment and furthering interpersonal relationships. This can be due to a chemical imbalance; a traumatic event such as but not limited to rape, abandonment, dishonesty, physical / psychological violence etc. They are in a self-preservation mode and it's not that they don't want to love you, but they cannot accept the fact that you have the best intentions for them and their heart. A lot of these people will get into relationships and romances only to sabotage them at a later date when they feel they are losing a grip on things / becoming sucked into something where they feel helpless.
3. You should limit the amount of time you see them to stop your feelings from running wild for this person. If you work together, this isn't going to be easy and a physical approach to the problem will be ineffective. In addition to limiting proximity, set boundaries for how you let them move about in your life. Don't let them spend the night with you anymore; cut the sex out of the equation (this is the hardest one to do); maybe you'll want to skip those daily lunches or little walks around the block. The point is that you want to wean your mind and body off of the person who's affecting your well-being.
4. Communication. It does you no good to spend less or no time with Ms. or Mr. X if you're talking on the phone or computer with them 24-7. Cut that stuff out too. Your friendship is going to suffer, but you have to make necessary sacrifices if you want to reel in your heart.
5. Try to forget keep-sakes and memories. Trying to forget a love interest? Chances are the photo of you and that special person at the beach or bar together isn't going to do anything but remind you of how special they were to you. If you have the guts, burn the picture. If you want to keep it for sentimental value, do so. You might even think of giving it to the other person in the photo, explaining that you want them to have something to remember the fun times. Whatever you do...don't have it propped up on your desk or night-stand. Also get rid of that darn computer file with their name on it...you'll know the pictures are there and your mind isn't going to let you forget. Same goes with the my space, emails, and SMS / phone videos and photos. Get rid of all of that stuff.
6. The hardest part of falling out-of-love with this person is that they're probably not going to want you to go. Rather their reasons for being with you are purely selfish or it's just a matter of ignorance on their part - they won't want to let go of someone who's in their life. This is the part where you have to confess your feelings to them...otherwise you just look like a jerk. After you tell them you had (emphasis on the HAD) feelings for them; explain that since they're not reciprocating that you've got to move on for your own mental health.
7. Find a support group so you don't spend too much time in the same circle of friends. Explain to the friends you trust that you're trying to get this person out of your heart / head and you could use the help / swift kick in the bottom if you attempt to win them back.
8. Do your best not to stray. You'll look weak and you'll find after much heart-ache and pain that you're right back where you started.

Tips

* Stay strong. The person you're trying to get away from will likely try to keep you from going.
* If you know she or he goes to Starbucks for a latte every morning at 9 AM, do yourself a favor and DON'T be there at 9 AM...or 9:10 AM...you get the picture. Avoid known hangouts and friends of this person so you can minimize your contact / exposure to them and their charms.
* If you're intimate with this person, do not let her or him back in the house unless you have a friend with you. Lock your door if that person absolutely MUST sleep over and make sure they are on the OTHER side of it when you do so. Girls are notorious for ambushing a man in his bed if they think they are losing him...the sex will be unreal but so will the headache when you find out you're back in love with a girl who's never going to return your feelings.
* Just because girl or guy A isn't coming on to you like a freight train doesn't give you an excuse to say they "can't feel love"...you need to be as honest with them as you want them to be with you and explain your heart. Then you'll know where the two of you stand...and you can adjust fire from there.

Warnings

* Don't drunk dial. It makes you look weak; and you'll say things you regret.
* Don't gossip about the person.
* Don't date their best friend, sister, brother, ex, etc.
* Don't compromise your dignity / integrity.

How to Tell Your Parents About Your First Kiss Without Them Going Crazy About It

STEPS

1. Avoid bringing it up out of the blue. You probably can’t just go up and say ” hey mom! I made-out with [insert name here]!” This is best to say when your parents are asking you about your love life.
2. Do this with the parent who is the same gender as you.If one is really far away, you don’t have much of a choice.is she doesn’t know about, now would be a good time. for example, say ” Mom, this is really hard for me to say, but, I once had a kiss with ________”(state kissing partner’s name.) She shouldn’t be too mad.
3. If she is mad, then ask her about when she tried to tell her mom about her first kiss.
4. Bring it up in conversation, like bring up the boy and just say it casually, as if she already knew. After you say it just keep talking, don’t stop and bring it up five more times. She knows, it’s over with.

Tips

* Just try to live.
* If you feel that your parents would freak out, it may be better not to mention it, for your sake and their’s.

Things You’ll Need

* Courage!
* Comprehension (If your parent tells you that you cant kiss until you’re 13 and you’re 11 or twelve listen to them, you waited 11 years to kiss someone you can probably wait two more.)

How to Master the Art of Kissing

Steps

1. Make sure your lips aren't dry - moistening them (but not too much) makes it easier for your lips to slide over your partner's.
2. Don't dive straight for the tonsils. Play with their tongue - caress, fondle, wrestle with it. Never bite; you could easily hurt the other person. Unless you know that person happens to like biting.
3. Let your partner take the lead sometimes and get used to his or her style - and don't be scared of moaning.
4. Use both the rough and smooth side of your tongue. Your partner will love it.
5. Use your tongue in the way you want your partner to use his/hers - both of you will naturally do the same.
6. Make sure you're also using the rest of your body to show how passionate you are!
7. Don't keep your arms still. Hold the other persons waist, or run your fingers through their hair (note: make sure to keep it PG unless they allow otherwise)


Tips

* Change speeds to add a mix and emotion.
* Make it natural.
* Breathe through your nose!
* DON'T stress.


Warnings

* Don't open your mouth too wide, nobody likes someone trying to eat their face.
* Don't windmill your tongue (spinning your tongue in circles)
* Don't be robotic! Go with the flow.

How to Kiss a Girl Smoothly With No Chance of Rejection

STEPS:

1. Touch her in increasingly more sensual ways leading up to the kiss.
2. Touch her arm for emphasis when you are talking.
3. Touch her hand. Looking at jewelry is a good excuse.
4. Touch her hair. Asking if it is her natural color, if she ever wears it up, has ever cut it short/used to have it long, or even when she washed it is a good excuse. If she is comfortable with you touching her hair and doesn’t recoil at all, then she is kissable, you can go for it here.
5. Take her hand and hold it as you talk. If you have done the above, it will be acceptable at this point. Don’t look at her hand or draw attention to it, just do it.
6. Squeeze her hand and see if she squeezes back, this is another kiss-tell. No girl ever squeezes back if she isn’t ready to kiss.
7. Stop talking, pause, tilt head and look at her. See if she is comfortable. If she is you can kiss.
8. What if she turns her face when you try to kiss?
9. Kiss her cheek and then her neck! She will turn around and kiss you. This is not a rejection but most guys assume it to be and back away. Do this and you can turn her on even more.
10. So, now you know how to touch her, but it will still not be 100% smooth if you are still in the same character as you are when talking to your hairdresser i.e. boring and acting like a friend instead of lover. You need to:
11. Establish a sexual vibe as you escalate the physical contact. You do this by:
* More intense eye contact
* Slower, smoother, deeper voice
12. Look at her in a sexual way, start to look at her lips as well as her eyes and see if she reciprocates. If she does she is imagining kissing you.
13. Sometimes, even with no work on your part, she will want you. When a girl wants to kiss you:
* She squeezes your hand.
* She looks at your lips or looks down.
* She touches your chest instead of arm.
* She is comfortable with hard eye contact even when no one is speaking.
* She touches her own lips for a second then pulls away quickly

WHAT IS LOVE

WHAT IS LOVE?

Love drives away loneliness from your life and gives it meaning.

It is the greatest gift , GOD has given to human beings, a gift we are so reluctant in using.

No matter how much you give love away, you never become poorer - for it keeps growing in intensity, enveloping everything that you do in life, making it worthy.

Love is all about companionship, friendship, understanding, patience and honesty.

When you are truely in love with someone, you have to love unconditionally. Very difficult, but not impossible.

Love is a sublime feeling of oneness, a state of complete submission where you are not apart from your partner.

Each person has a vague image of his or her lover. Once the pieces of the jigsaw puzzle fit in, then the emotional reaction of ‘feeling in love’ starts.

Love is about give and take, understanding, giving space, about trust, a bond that becomes stronger once you have kids.

LOVE IS AN ENIGMA. WHEN YOU HAVE IT YOU DON’T REALISE IT’S VALUE, BUT WHEN YOU LOSE IT, YOU DO.

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Approaching Groups Of Women

We’ve already covered how to approach a group of women, but the Player can never get enough practice, and the more training you have under your belt, the better. When you’re approaching groups of women, you’re under the looking glass with an uphill battle — a shunning en masse is just one bad pickup line away. However, it doesn’t have to be like this, and the one problem guys make for themselves when approaching groups of women is conceding defeat without even trying. Here are a few tips to help you conquer those pessimistic fears and wow the crowd.

Analyze the situation
You wouldn’t go hunting in the wild without having a game plan, would you? The same principles apply to a group-pickup setting, and a strategy will help you conquer the pack. Understanding the type of group is critical to your success — where they are, what they’re there for and how tough it will be to break their walls with your approach. Is it a birthday? A stagette? Or just a girls’ night out? Keep your eye out and see if the group is approachable; knowing why the pack exists can measure your level of success. Also, check for guys in the group and see what your chances might be. You may have to become bar buddies with them to get the VIP access to their girlfriend, but it’s a bullet worth taking to go home a happy Player.

Address them as a group
If you’re approaching a group of women, address them as a group. The approach must not include you singling out your target right off the bat; you’re going to have to do some convincing to prove your worth.

There are some tricks to doing this. First off, never approach the group from the side; it looks like you’re trying to weasel your way in and taking the coward’s approach by trying to avoid conversation. Approach them from the front. Second, make eye contact, smile and introduce yourself to all of them. This will help even out all their ranks in the pecking order. Then, take the focus of your target (who you’ll get to know more about through casual conversation with the group). Acknowledging their presence as more than a sum of their parts is integral to the next step in the process.

Be original
If you’re going to put yourself out on a limb, the worst thing you can do is panic… so don’t. Instead, walk into the lion’s den with two things in mind: confidence and creativity.

The best way to make the approach is with a certain level of entertainment value, and one that involves engaging each of their personalities. Therefore, you’ll have a huge advantage if you start with a great conversation topic. Remember, this isn’t a normal pickup — engaging more than one woman has to be a charming experience that will ultimately let the others’ guards down. Just don’t let them sucker you into buying them drinks or doing their bidding — it’s very easy to fall into that trap when dealing with a pack mentality.

Approaching Groups Of Women

We’ve already covered how to approach a group of women, but the Player can never get enough practice, and the more training you have under your belt, the better. When you’re approaching groups of women, you’re under the looking glass with an uphill battle — a shunning en masse is just one bad pickup line away. However, it doesn’t have to be like this, and the one problem guys make for themselves when approaching groups of women is conceding defeat without even trying. Here are a few tips to help you conquer those pessimistic fears and wow the crowd.

Analyze the situation
You wouldn’t go hunting in the wild without having a game plan, would you? The same principles apply to a group-pickup setting, and a strategy will help you conquer the pack. Understanding the type of group is critical to your success — where they are, what they’re there for and how tough it will be to break their walls with your approach. Is it a birthday? A stagette? Or just a girls’ night out? Keep your eye out and see if the group is approachable; knowing why the pack exists can measure your level of success. Also, check for guys in the group and see what your chances might be. You may have to become bar buddies with them to get the VIP access to their girlfriend, but it’s a bullet worth taking to go home a happy Player.

Address them as a group
If you’re approaching a group of women, address them as a group. The approach must not include you singling out your target right off the bat; you’re going to have to do some convincing to prove your worth.

There are some tricks to doing this. First off, never approach the group from the side; it looks like you’re trying to weasel your way in and taking the coward’s approach by trying to avoid conversation. Approach them from the front. Second, make eye contact, smile and introduce yourself to all of them. This will help even out all their ranks in the pecking order. Then, take the focus of your target (who you’ll get to know more about through casual conversation with the group). Acknowledging their presence as more than a sum of their parts is integral to the next step in the process.

Be original
If you’re going to put yourself out on a limb, the worst thing you can do is panic… so don’t. Instead, walk into the lion’s den with two things in mind: confidence and creativity.

The best way to make the approach is with a certain level of entertainment value, and one that involves engaging each of their personalities. Therefore, you’ll have a huge advantage if you start with a great conversation topic. Remember, this isn’t a normal pickup — engaging more than one woman has to be a charming experience that will ultimately let the others’ guards down. Just don’t let them sucker you into buying them drinks or doing their bidding — it’s very easy to fall into that trap when dealing with a pack mentality.