Dating Older Woman

Dating Older Woman Here we are intended to tell you what to keep in mind when opting for a date with an older woman... If a mother-of-three Demi Moore can attract a young man like Ashton, you know for sure that young and happening men do not mind dating older woman. A survey reported that young men find older women with 'experience' sexy and exciting as a companion. Here's a guide to help you, if you've fallen in love with an older woman or you don't mind going for such an experience. EXPLORE Accept that this relationship, however serious, will be built less on common ground and more on exploring new territory. Don't expect your date to enjoy your talks about party and friends for along time, she will want to relax with a drink. That means you need to change the topic of discussion. Ask her questions about her job, her hobbies, what type of music she likes. Even though, it will not make much sense to you, look engrossed and don't be discouraged if you can't find common ground. You are after all young and you are supposed to know only what you've experienced so far. So what if she's a gardening enthusiast, but you know nothing about it? Ask her to gift you some plants for keepsake and that you promise to nurture the plants according to her gardening tips. FORGET YOUR GAMES If you end up in a relationship with an older woman, then the only time you should be playing games is when you turn on your laptop. Forget all the high school dating rules in order to make yourself look cool. The solution is simple: Just act your age and like you feel, not how you think you should according to some dating protocols you were taught by friends in college. If you feel attracted to her, tell her. If you have the urge to call her, do it. Since an older woman is more likely to be further along in her career than you are, she may insist on paying most of the time, be comfortable about this. But do be a gentleman and offer to buy dinner. BE COOL Be prepared to handle comments. Many relationships of younger men and older women have been talked about for a long long time now, but yet such relationships does arouse a lot of curiosity. You'll have to deal with looks and remarks from friends, family, and even strangers. But if you do manage not to stumble by the comments, you'll not only cope, you'll impress your lady with your maturity and charm. If somebody can't help but glare at you and your lady for the obvious reasons, be witty and smoothly say something like, "I don't blame you for staring. She's beautiful, isn't she?" DON'T DISCUSS AGE Agreed the lady you are dating is smart, confident and mature but be certain she'll not like her age being mentioned at any given time. You know how women are touchy about their age! She might feel you are subtly reminding her of the age difference between the two of you and that could make her uncomfortable. Please, for heaven's sake avoid a comment like, "Don't we get along so well, despite our age differences". Besides, it's your personalities, not your birthday candles, that are compatible - and that's where you should concentrate. Don't you make the mistake of asking the question like, "Did your town/city have electricity when you were a little girl?" BE YOURSELF Remember, she is dating you because she likes you. She obviously had a choice of dating anyone of her age but she didn't. So don't pressure yourself to act more mature. Maybe, she's attracted to you because you are young and have a open mind. You offer spontaneity and fun.

All About Body Language

All About Body Language

Yes, your body language plays a very important role in impressing your date. So while you're trying to get your partner's attention, here are a few things that you must do and must not do-all, so that you can breeze into a relationship for keeps...

MUST DO...

1) Hold yourself upright. Think of how you'd hold yourself if you were the most confident person in the world.

2) Move slowly. Gesture slowly. Speak slowly. Blink slowly. This communicates comfort and confidence.

3) Pause often. Only respond if you choose to. Remember: You don't need to react or respond to anything that you don't want to. Women often try to push you off balance. Don't fall for it. Stay cool, and pause if you need to in order to keep your composure.


MUST NOT DO...

1) Talking too fast or too much. This communicates that you're nervous and sketchy, unless you're telling a really intresting story, that is...

2) Making nervous gestures, laughs, tics, etc. At times many guys laugh nervously after just about everything they say. This is the death of attraction. It instantly communicates insecurity.

3) Breaking eye contact. At fIrst, you need to maintain eye contact until she breaks it. This establishes at an unconscious level that you're not afraid.

How to Attract an Older Woman

It's may be difficult enough attracting an older women, but you've really got the odds stacked against you when you're a teenage guy trying to make an impression on someone older than you. They key is to expand your horizons and avoid teenage stereotypes and while there are no guarantees that a date or a relationship will result, it will certainly increase your chances.

STEPS:

1. 1.)Base your pursuit on her age. A girl who's only a year older than you will be easier to impress than a woman who's ten years older than you are.
2. 2.)Have a good BODY LANGUAGE
3. 3.)Get into her social circle. Since she is not your age, she doesn't automatically show up in the same places you hang out. Determine where she likes to go and who she hangs out with, and find a way in. One example:
   
   
   • Find an older girl that you are attracted to.
   • Find out if she has a brother your age.
   • If she does have a brother your age, get to know him.
4. Only if she has a brother, pretend to play-fight with him, until you attract her attention.
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7. 4.)If she doesn't have a brother, attract her attention with something that she likes.
   • When you have caught her attention, try to make her laugh.
   • Whenever you see her, try to make her laugh.
   • Again, with the brother. If he asks you if you like his sister, you tell him that you do.

5.)Take an interest in her interests, which are likely to be very different than yours. If you know she's into opera, for example, tell her that you've never seen an opera (assuming you haven't) and ask her if she has any recommendations. If you're not willing to find out what she's into and explore it, then reconsider whether you really want to go after someone who has such different interests than you do.

TIPS

• Bathe & brush your teeth before you see her.
• Wear clean clothes.
• Try to act mature.
• Learn proper grammar.
• Use hamam soap
• Assert yourself make sure she knows your interested
• Ask her to teach you something she likes or ask her to sing her a song.
• Look at her eyes and listen to her carefully while she is talking about herself

WARNINGS

• Don’t be afraid to ask questions.
• Don’t show fear.
• Don't ask her how old she is ,she will tell you when she's ready
• Be careful that with step 2 you aren't stalking a girl. Restraining orders really can curb true love.
• Don't over due the trying to make her laugh, she may find you annoying

THINGS YOU WILL NEED

• Confidence
• Hygiene
• A GOOD BODY LANGUAGE