SmS DAtiN TiPS

“I luv u” and “Misng U”…Yes we are talking about SMS romances here. SMS has become the handiest tools that men can use to attract chicks. Have you ever given thought to the basic dos and don’ts when it comes to managing an SMS romance? Here are 5 golden rules that should always be followed if you want to succeed in making your grl fal n luv wid u



Don’t message her everyday
Never make the mistake of messaging her everyday. If she doesn’t message you everyday, you too should follow suit. If you religiously SMS her, she will think that you need to talk to her and are too needy.


Take your time before replying
Never be in a hurry to reply to her messages. This is the numero uno rule when it comes to SMS dating. A lot of guys make the silly mistake of punching the keypad the moment their girl texts them. As long as it’s not an emergency, don’t be in too much of a hurry to reply to her messages. By replying too quickly you will only make it seem as if you have absolutely nothing better to do than to replying to her SMS. Wait for at least ten minutes before sending her a reply. By making her wait for your reply, you will, in a subtle way, make her feel that you have your own things to do and your life does not just revolve around her.


Do not SMS more than once
Do not text her or reply to her message more than once. Most guys have made this mistake at least once in their dating career. You text your girl and if she doesn’t reply within fifteen minutes you start fingering your keypad, typing out another message, demanding why she didn’t reply to your first one. Never do this. As this is a sure shot way of positioning yourself as another needy guy out there. Hey, she may not be carrying her cell with her. You don’t want her to find her message box cluttered with your soppy messages. That’s just not cool.


Don’t make your SMS too romantic
Don’t allow your messages to reflect your feelings especially in the first few days of your friendship. If your messages are overtly romantic then you will just give away the game to her. Keep your messages short and flirtatious (not romantic). Let her be the one to send you the romantic stuff. But avoid responding in kind. And as mentioned earlier, don’t feel compelled to reply to all her messages. If your girl turns out to be a compulsive texter, keep a 10:1 ratio of replying to her messages. So for every ten SMS, just send her one. NO MORE.


Take a breather
Don’t message her for a few days. Be subtle about it. Meet her, take her calls but just stop messaging her. By suddenly stopping your SMS’s, she will have a lot of questions popping up in her mind, like “Is he no longer interested in me?” or “Is he texting other girls”. Doing this will help you remain in control of the relationship. To succeed in the dating game, control is very important. However, don’t do this too often. The idea is to make her jealous, not lose interest in you.


So I do hope that you have absorbed all the little dirty secrets of snaring your girl with your SMS. Use them well and you will definitely triumph in the play-hard-to-get dating game.