How to Choose Between Two Girls

Look…It’s happened. You like two girls, maybe you’re going out with one of them, maybe they both like you, maybe they don’t. It’s just that they’re waiting for you to make that decision their waiting, and you’d better choose one before you lose both.

Dont think things are going to work themselves out when you are choosing between two girls if you just let things go then you will be unhappy without the one you want.

1. Analyze your relationship with both girls. What do you actually want from each of the girls? Just a physical relation? Marriage? A fun time? Soul mate? This is a very important decision, or you’ll be stuck with something you don’t want.
2. What does one girl have that the other one doesn’t? If both are good looking, which one do you enjoy being with more? Which one are you more compatible with? Who do you have better conversations with? Who has the better family? Who do you have the most fun with? Who does your mother like the best?(She knows you the best so she will know who’s best for you, whether she knows the girls or not) Who do you try new things with (this is important if you are thinking about a long term relationship, a key factor is to have someone who keeps things light and wont get boring.)Answer all of these questions before moving on.

1. Make a table with one column for each girl, and list as many good qualities as you can think of.
2. Locate any qualities that both girls share, and cross them off the list. You are now left with a list of unique qualities that each girl has. Review these qualities and compare which ones you like best. The girl with the most and best unique qualities is most likely the one you should choose. Also if you want list the bad qualities and the one with the least bad qualities is also most likely the one you should choose.
3. Once you make your decision, be direct about it. Do not flip flop between the girls. Girls love it when you’re direct. Girls love actions. Do something in front of her friends (they probably think you are a jerk.)Remember actions speak louder than words. Figure out where she is one night and surprise Go up to her and just tell her, “I can’t bear to be without you.” She’ll melt. They go for that stuff, once in a while. Also remember anything can be fixed.

Tips

* If you aren’t satisfied with the steps above, pick whichever girl you have the most in common with.
* Let the other girl down easy. Talk to her and explain the predicament. The worst thing you can do is ignore her or bottle the feelings.
* If you’ve chosen already and believe you have chosen wrongly, go back and fix your mistakes. It’ll take some time and some bonding, but you’ll be better for it.
* Not all girls are the same, some may fall for stupid silly tricks, some may not.
* Be ready to live with your decision, if you choose one, you probably will never get the chance to go out with the other if you chose wrong. Think long and hard.

Warnings

* Don’t let the girls know you are observing them for unique traits! They will certainly put on a show if they know you are watching. You need to determine their real qualities.
* You’re unlikely to be able to see both of them at the same time. If you play with both, you may lose them both. Play one, and keep something up your sleeve should it fall through. Don’t lose both girls needlessly, when one will do.
* You can’t have strong feelings for one person while you’re going out with someone else. It’ll ruin the relationship you do have.
* If you actually say “I can’t bear to live without you”, make sure you say it seriously, or else most likely they will laugh.
* This will usally work, but sometimes you could over look something important. This isn’t absolute, this will help you decide but you have to make the decision with who you wanted to be with.

Things You’ll Need

* Pencil or Pen
* Paper
* Cell Phone

How to Choose From Multiple Girls

Has there ever been a time that you have been attracted to multiple girls at once, and you know that most of them like you? The hard part is deciding which one is for you.

1. Analyze your relationship with both girls. Know what you want from them and Make sure all of these people like you, you don’t want to end up choosing the one that doesn’t like you. (See How to tell if someone likes you).
2. Know which ones are closest to you, which ones are serious about getting with you.
3. Which one makes you happy, which one would you want to spend time with, what about them makes you smile, don’t always choose someone just because they are hot make sure you can be able to talk to them.(but a hot girl is cool too)
4. If you see them each in a different time of the day try one test day and flirt and hangout with them see how it works(don’t overdo it though keep it cool).
5. After you know how they each act and feel, make your choice. But remember be careful this is an important decision.
6. If one stares at you and flirts and smiles all the time she really likes you.

Tips

* Remember if you know they like you its alright, if you mess a couple things up or are a klutz they might find it cute.
* Which one makes you smile ask yourself that.
* Look good. Don’t make a bad impression even if you look good most of the time. If they see you one time looking bad thats what they will remember, not the good days.
* Don’t be an idiot, don’t just say stupid things in front of them that put someone else down or something, nobody likes that.
* Never use those corny lines just be a natural flirt

Warnings

* Don’t be too forward, you’re a human, not a god.
* Don’t bring your annoying talkative friend around them.
* Never blow off any of them, remain friends with all of them, if your girlfriend wants you to stop hanging out with a friend don’t listen to her
* Don’t cheat once you’ve got a girl

How to Make Out With a Girl

Steps

1. Have passion. If you don't have passion, don't read this. Most guys say they don't have passion, trust me, you do, you just have to find it. But if you're not confident, don't do it.
2. Make sure you are in a place you and your girl are comfortable in. Good places to start is a bed (note: some girls may feel awkward or nervous if you begin making out on a bed, she may think you want more than just kissing), a couch or even under the stars. One thing to keep in mind is the awkwardness of people walking in on you, so make sure your parents/siblings/friends aren't in the next room.
3. Music. Music is optional, however sparks fly a lot more when there is some good background music playing or music that you and your girl like. This step isn't essential and make sure you know what type of music your girl likes.
4. Start. Starting is very important, can often be fun and can also be very awkward if you don't know what you're doing. Flirting is essential in this step. The goal of flirting is to make a girl have fun. This can be accomplished by joking around, wrestling, teasing, or dancing " but remember too much can be too much, so moderation must be found.
5. During the process of flirting, you will find yourself physically closer to her and/or looking into her eyes. This is the point where you must make the first kiss. Whatever you do, don't get nervous and if you already are, kissing will take that away. Lean your body closer to hers and gently pull her chin towards yours or brush her hair away from her eyes. Don't pucker up your lips like you kissing your Aunt Sally, but keep in a natural position. Now bring your lips closer to hers until they touch and slowly close your lips tighter and when you pull away after a second or so of contact open your lips back to a normal position. Now go in for a second kill and do the same thing. Do this two or three times. Don't kiss her lips in the same spot, move around and kiss her neck/forehead/nose/ears or kiss the area around her lips. This is the main part of making-out, however is very boring if its all you guys do.
6. You might want to add variety, like on the process try the French Kiss or many others you know, keep it slow, many people like to go slow and makes it more passionate, if you and your girl feel comfortable go on the next step, experiment with yourself, touch her, let her touch you. On the moment take a little break look at her on the eyes and tell her "You look beautiful baby" or something nice to her but only if you mean it. Remember don't keep going to the next step if you or she don't feel comfortable.
7. Follow the tips below to make your making out experience less kissy-kissy.



Tips

* Sift through her hair with your fingers and brush her ears.
* Hold her like a baby. Some women are fragile and like to be handled accordingly.
* Don't kiss only her lips- share the wealth. Girls love it when you kiss their necks, particularly the spot where her shoulder connects to their neck. As well, licking or biting (GENTLY!) her ear (especially her earlobes and upper ear) can feel great, too. (Note: Some girls are more ticklish than others- Some may find that this tickles too much to feel good. Also if this is your first time kissing that girl, you may find this is something she is not comfortable doing- she'll let you know by moving away slightly or simply telling you it's not her thing. Just go back to her mouth)
* Break away momentarily. Then as you move back towards her to continue, touch your lips together gently but do not kiss- just tease her by sliding your lips across hers. This technique can drive her CRAZY and make her extremely passionate when you finally do kiss her.
* Look her in her eyes, but not while your kissing her, close your eyes while you kiss and when you pull back look in her eyes. This is difficult because your natural reaction is to look at her with your lips pressed against her. It is rude to have your eyes open during a kiss.
* Take a break and smile at her and tell her something sweet, like "You're Beautiful"
* Before you kiss her, rub your thumb softly against the bottom of her lip or against her cheek and smile at her - she will usually smile or giggle and then take that chance to kiss her.
* Just press your lips against her and let her play with your lips.
* Tell her that she is beautiful/gorgeous.
* Don't get too fast, if you catch yourself going too fast, just slow down.
* Cuddle and hold her closer to you and look her in the eyes.
* Wet/Dry Kiss- don't make it too much of either! Saliva's pretty gross, because you've got to keep swallowing, and the 'gulping' sound isn't that attractive. Be sure to apply a bit of lip balm (not stick or gloss - too sticky and messy) to allow for a smooth kiss.
* Remember not to take total control of the situation. Let your partner make a few moves of their own.
* Don't be scared. If it's the first time for both of you, she'll probably feel just as nervous.
* Don't worry about how to move your tongue because if you practice on pillows or something it feels odd but when you're actually french kissing it will feel natural.
* It's a good idea to make a quick bathroom run (if you're at home) before you make a move for several reasons. You don't want to have to go to the bathroom in the middle of a good make-out session. Another tip is to hide a toothbrush and toothpaste/mouthwash in the nearest bathroom before your date if you're at your own residence. This allows you to ensure good breath before you swap spit. Going to the bathroom also gives you an excuse to change your position when you get back, allowing you to get closer to your partner to make the first move.
* Remember that practice makes better, so if you don't think you are good at all remember that nobody is perfect so you just might want to keep trying, experience will make it more sweet and passionate.
* Start out with the lights on. Once you get more comfortable with each other, slowly dim the lights. Girls like that.


Warnings

* Keep your hands concentrated on her face, head or neck. Unless she loves it, DO NOT grab her butt/breasts/inner legs. If you want to do this, talk to her about it first. But remember, this is just making out. If you want, you can hug her around her waist.
* BE GENTLE. Again, girls are very fragile and don't like to be man-handled.
* Please note that girls do have boobs that can be painful if you hug TOO tight. Be careful about that because hurting her (especially in that way) can be a huge and embarrassing turn-off for you and her!
* DO NOT stick your tongue in her nose.
* You probably shouldn't tell the girl you read a guide on how to kiss (unless you're SURE she'd think it was cute).
* If she doesn't seem to like it, stop immediately.
* Many girls are not comfortable with french kissing. Especially at first!
* Do not chew gum if it is your first time. Gum tends to produce saliva more than mints do. If you do chew gum, and both of you are comfortable, playfully swap it between the two of you.
* It might help if you put on a scary movie because it can make you two get close so then you can move in for the kiss.( But not too scary because then she will not enjoy your time together)
* DO NOT lick her neck, ears, or anything if she isn't into it. If she likes that kind of thing or you do, talk about and see how it goes.
* DO NOT start to pull off her shirt/bra strap. Girls usually do not like this as it is a form of manhandling and they'll feel uncomfortable.
* And the last thing; love can't be totally read like a manual, it will have to be made naturally.


Things You'll Need

* Mints/Gum/Binaca before you start.
* Lit scented candles can make for a romantic session.
* Lip balm. it isn't girly if it doesn't have flavor. Scratchy lips are not pleasant for girls and guys alike, so if you don't want her kissing you with chapped lips, don't kiss her with chapped lips!
* you can use a small amount of mouthwash but remember its very strong so drink some water after that.
* You Might Need A Condom If Things Get Good.

How to Stop Loving a Girl Who Can't Be Loved

Us guys know how it goes...we've all met the perfect girl who we've felt compatibility and excitement with; a bond like no other...everything seems to click in a way that's too good to be true. If only the two of you had each other to rely on; if only the love you see beneath the surface became a daily reality the world would be a better place. Sometimes you have to accept the fact that no matter how much you love someone; there are just some people who cannot be loved. In the following steps I'll tell you the best way to stop your heart from beating out of control for a person that is incapable of recieving real love.


Steps

1. Realize it's not your fault if someone doesn't love you. If your direct actions have changed their mind about your love, then you've got some self-explaining to do. But if it's just a matter of attraction or chemistry it can't really be nit-picked. When it comes to a person who's so out of touch with romance that they cannot or will not allow themselves to be loved; it's a different animal completely. Behold.
2. Ponder the fact that most people who can't be loved have psychological and or emotional problems revolving around commitment and furthering interpersonal relationships. This can be due to a chemical imbalance; a traumatic event such as but not limited to rape, abandonment, dishonesty, physical / psychological violence etc. They are in a self-preservation mode and it's not that they don't want to love you, but they cannot accept the fact that you have the best intentions for them and their heart. A lot of these people will get into relationships and romances only to sabotage them at a later date when they feel they are losing a grip on things / becoming sucked into something where they feel helpless.
3. You should limit the amount of time you see them to stop your feelings from running wild for this person. If you work together, this isn't going to be easy and a physical approach to the problem will be ineffective. In addition to limiting proximity, set boundaries for how you let them move about in your life. Don't let them spend the night with you anymore; cut the sex out of the equation (this is the hardest one to do); maybe you'll want to skip those daily lunches or little walks around the block. The point is that you want to wean your mind and body off of the person who's affecting your well-being.
4. Communication. It does you no good to spend less or no time with Ms. or Mr. X if you're talking on the phone or computer with them 24-7. Cut that stuff out too. Your friendship is going to suffer, but you have to make necessary sacrifices if you want to reel in your heart.
5. Try to forget keep-sakes and memories. Trying to forget a love interest? Chances are the photo of you and that special person at the beach or bar together isn't going to do anything but remind you of how special they were to you. If you have the guts, burn the picture. If you want to keep it for sentimental value, do so. You might even think of giving it to the other person in the photo, explaining that you want them to have something to remember the fun times. Whatever you do...don't have it propped up on your desk or night-stand. Also get rid of that darn computer file with their name on it...you'll know the pictures are there and your mind isn't going to let you forget. Same goes with the my space, emails, and SMS / phone videos and photos. Get rid of all of that stuff.
6. The hardest part of falling out-of-love with this person is that they're probably not going to want you to go. Rather their reasons for being with you are purely selfish or it's just a matter of ignorance on their part - they won't want to let go of someone who's in their life. This is the part where you have to confess your feelings to them...otherwise you just look like a jerk. After you tell them you had (emphasis on the HAD) feelings for them; explain that since they're not reciprocating that you've got to move on for your own mental health.
7. Find a support group so you don't spend too much time in the same circle of friends. Explain to the friends you trust that you're trying to get this person out of your heart / head and you could use the help / swift kick in the bottom if you attempt to win them back.
8. Do your best not to stray. You'll look weak and you'll find after much heart-ache and pain that you're right back where you started.

Tips

* Stay strong. The person you're trying to get away from will likely try to keep you from going.
* If you know she or he goes to Starbucks for a latte every morning at 9 AM, do yourself a favor and DON'T be there at 9 AM...or 9:10 AM...you get the picture. Avoid known hangouts and friends of this person so you can minimize your contact / exposure to them and their charms.
* If you're intimate with this person, do not let her or him back in the house unless you have a friend with you. Lock your door if that person absolutely MUST sleep over and make sure they are on the OTHER side of it when you do so. Girls are notorious for ambushing a man in his bed if they think they are losing him...the sex will be unreal but so will the headache when you find out you're back in love with a girl who's never going to return your feelings.
* Just because girl or guy A isn't coming on to you like a freight train doesn't give you an excuse to say they "can't feel love"...you need to be as honest with them as you want them to be with you and explain your heart. Then you'll know where the two of you stand...and you can adjust fire from there.

Warnings

* Don't drunk dial. It makes you look weak; and you'll say things you regret.
* Don't gossip about the person.
* Don't date their best friend, sister, brother, ex, etc.
* Don't compromise your dignity / integrity.